How to Accessorize Your Wrinkles
Curate, Elevate & Own Your Own Style
DEAR DAMES
“It’s happening. My wrinkles have RSVP’d to the rest of my life, and my college jeans? Let’s just say they’ve moved on to a better place. Truth is, I still care about how I look — but I don’t want to show up looking like one big sigh. I want to age with sass and sparkle, not surrender. How do I keep my sense of style without feeling like I’m trying too hard… or giving up completely?”
– Still Got It (Somewhere) in Sarasota
Dear Still Got It (and Honestly, You Never Lost It)
Aging boldly isn’t about defiance—it’s about delight.
Those fine lines? They’re not flaws, they’re footnotes to your best stories. That extra curve? She’s earned her seat at the table! This chapter of life isn’t about dressing your age—it’s about dressing your energy. So, put down the shapeless cardigans and pick up something that says, “I’m still in the game—and I look good playing it.”
Let’s get you styled in a way that makes you feel like the main character.
“I dress the woman I am today — not the one I outgrew.”
— Gabrielle Union, We’re Going to Need More Wine (2017)
Ingredients
- 1 well-tailored wardrobe that fits who you are now
- 2 tablespoons of confidence (generously applied)
- A splash of curiosity—style evolves, and so can you
- A dash of humor (because life’s too short for uncomfortable shoes)
- Optional garnish: a signature scent, bold lipstick, or fierce frame-worthy specs
Instructions
STEP 1: BEFORE YOU ZIP, BUTTON, OR DRAPE – START HERE
Great style begins with what you don’t see. Comfortable, well-fitting undergarments aren’t just about support—they’re about self-respect.
Invest in pretty pieces that feel good against your skin and remind you that you’re worth the upgrade.
Whether it’s a smoothing bra that lifts more than your spirits or undies that stay put without a fight, your confidence deserves a strong foundation (literally).
You’re not dressing for someone else—you’re dressing for the woman who’s earned every curve, scar, and shimmer of silver.
STEP 2: CURATE A CLOSET THAT CHEERS YOU ON
Start with timeless, flattering pieces to create your capsule wardrobe:
- Power Jacket: Structured, stylish, and built to elevate everything from jeans to flowy dresses. A true wardrobe wingwoman, the right jacket offers shape without stiffness and polish without pretense. Whether it’s tailored to define your waist or draped in a luxe kimono cut, the power jacket says, “I came prepared… and I came fabulous.”
- The Perfect Shirt: Crisp, classic, and the ultimate closet chameleon. This isn’t your grandmother’s flowery blouse (though she probably wore it better than most). It’s the piece that adds instant sophistication—even when you’re running on fumes and dry shampoo. Pair it with pearls for brunch or sneakers for errands—it’s equally at home in the boardroom or the farmers market. Simple can be striking.
STEP 3: GREAT JEANS, BOLD DREAMS, AND ONE FABULOUS FINISHING TOUCH
Build a foundation that celebrates where you’ve been — and where you’re boldly heading:
- Dark Wash Jeans: Mid- or high-rise, fitted just right. Skip the over-distressed denim—you’ve already weathered your share of life’s rough patches. No need to wear manufactured hardship on your thighs when you’ve earned your resilience the real way. Choose a clean, flattering cut that feels effortless and honors your journey.
- Tailored Dark Trousers: Some days call for something a little sharper. A great pair of fitted dark trousers brings instant polish—without sacrificing comfort. Perfect for milestone celebrations, board meetings, or simply showing up for yourself with style. Bonus points for a bit of stretch: because power moves feel better when you can still breathe.
- The Statement Piece: Whether it’s a pair of earrings that catch the light (and a few compliments), a scarf that tells a story, or a handbag that turns heads and holds snacks—your statement piece is less about trends and more about identity. It’s the exclamation point at the end of your outfit’s sentence.
READY FOR MORE?
If this chapter gave your confidence a little strut and your wardrobe a second wind, just wait until you see what’s brewing in the full volume. From life recipes and real-talk reflections to even more style tips that go beyond the hanger—we’ve only just unzipped the garment bag.
Volume 1: Confidence Brewed Boldly is steeped with stories, strategies, and sass from women who’ve been there, done that, and aren’t done yet.
Pull up a chair, pour another cup, and meet us in the pages. The Dames are saving you a seat.
TEA WITH THE DAMES
Volume 1: Boldly Brewed with Confidence
…is coming soon! Stay tuned! Send us a note and we’ll let you know the moment it’s fresh out of the oven.
Trust your taste… make magic.
Accessorize Your Table
Your table, like your wardrobe, deserves to show up with personality, charm, and just a touch of drama. Whether you’re serving up takeout or a home-cooked feast, setting the table with intention turns any meal into an occasion.